AMERICUS Think about high school football, and you think about the state of Georgia as one of the hotbeds. Not only is it filled with great players, but quality coaches as well. So being the one preplevel coach from Georgia chosen for a national summit of your peers is, without saying, the ultimate honor."It was something you had no control over. All you could really do was pray that the doctors did things correctly and made the right decisions and it went well."After Milan experienced complications following the surgery, Butler called Panthers coach Ron Rivera, who told him to stay with his family as long as he needed. He and Talley, who met while attending Connecticut, also have a 3yearolddaughter, Maya.Butler slept several nights at the hospital, where a family member hung up a poster with Milan's name and baby picture that visitors signed when they stopped by.Butler, 25, returned to Charlotte when Milan was taken off the heartlungs machine the following week and was